Suppose there is something about the way you talk that really irritates people. How would you know? Without an objective, knowledgeable ear you will only know what you intend to say, not what is actually heard by others. Here are some of the problems you would run into:
1. It will seem to you that any problem in communication is always the fault of the other guys.
2. People will be reluctant to tell you, mostly because it would be both very rude and socially dangerous.
3. Very few people will know how to identify exactly what you are doing that is the problem. It does take expertise in verbal communication.
This is where a Personal Communication Coach would be immensely valuable to you. The relationship is confidential, professional and effective. The coach will support, instruct and sharpen the focus so that you gain maximum achievement for your effort. Yes, it cost money. But, yes, it works to put you in control of the sound of your voice.
“A Coach is someone who makes you do what you don’t want to do, has you see what you don’t want to see, so you can be everything you always wanted to be.” Tom Landry
You don’t know what you don’t know. Your personal coach helps you understand your blind side. I’m talking about the impression you make by the way you speak. Can you think of a better investment of your time and money?
Frodo: I wish the ring had never come to me. I wish none of this had happened.
Response: So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide. All you have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to you.
If you want to learn more about how Dr. Fleming can help you improve your communication skills, please call her at telephone 415.391.9179 or send her an email at [email protected]
Carol Fleming, Ph.D., is the author of “It’s the Way You Say It”: Becoming Articulate, Well-spoken and Clear. A comprehensive guide to vocal development and improvement of communication skills.
